So, this past Saturday I went with the big homey to meet up with a male friend of hers at Lucky Strike. So we're chillin having a couple of drinks and the male friend calls her over to come sit with him. Im still chillin sipping my lil drink by myself. AG. Then, she calls me over to sit down and I'm like "nah, I'm good" So she jive presses me out to come sit by them...so I go over. Two minutes later this guy comes and sits down and introduces himself and starts to talk about bowling. He doesn't understand the scoring yada yada yada. I tell him I bowl, have a ball, shoes the whole nine. We chat for a lil while longer and then everybody gets ready to go. So homeboy says to me he's gonnna buy a ball and it better make a difference in his score or he's gonnna go thru his man to go thru the big homey to get her to tell me I owe him. WHA???
I say all that to say.....WHY DIDN'T THIS NIGGA JUST ASK FOR MY NUMBER?!?! This happens to me frequently. The big homey says it's because I don't show interest. I'm not one of those hair flipping, bat my eyelashes and touch your leg kind of girls. If my conversation lasts past "Hi, I'm that chick" then I'm feeling you a lil bit.
The big homey says that I shouldve offered my number because she doesn't think he could tell whether or not i was interested. She says I never show when I'm interested. How she can say this, I'll never know because im really not the friendliest brawd you could meet. I'm ABN after all. Shes of the new school thinking that it's OK to ask a guy for his number. I'm shy as fuck, number one. I'm old school as fuck, number two.
Anyaggressivebitch, what I am saying is that niggas have gotten so comfortable with aggressive and/or desperate brawds that they don't feel like they have to work to even meet chicks these days, let alone get the ass. I'm not knockin you aggressive chicks. If you have the balls...more power to you. I'm just not that girl. Nigga, ask ME for my number. Seems like I'm gonna be a pimp forever becuz these dudes don't have a clue. Oh...I must add, I don't rock with lames so please don't mistake the dudes I speak of, arrogant fucks that they are. That is all.
So what are your feelings on making the first move (ie: asking a guy for his number)?
Talk amongst yourselves...
4 comments:
i personally like it when chicks ask me for my number. it's 2009 already. on the other hand, i feel what you're saying about being oldschool. still though, if you want it, take it.
so damn true. men have gotten so sure of themselves and soooo lazy.
Is there no middle ground? If you want to be old school then wouldn't you open yourself to showing interest? If you are not sending the "old school" signs of interest then it's hard to expect an old school approach.
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